Category: Conflict

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The Problem with Maggie

What can a little dog named Maggie teach us about psychotherapy? Through her reactions to anger, vulnerability, and perceived danger, this article explores the importance of looking beneath defensive behaviour. Drawing on decades of clinical experience, it examines how therapists can remain compassionate and steady when clients become angry or resistant, recognizing that the bark is not the whole story.

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Conflict

Disrespect or Disagreement?

Why do some men experience disagreement as disrespect? Drawing on decades of experience working with teenagers involved in violence and serious behavioural problems, this article explores how shame, vulnerability, and status influence the way men respond to conflict. It examines how emotional maturity begins with learning that disagreement is survivable—and that being challenged does not mean being humiliated or diminished.

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The Kids Aren’t Alright

What does it mean to be truly empowered? This article explores how emotional discomfort is increasingly mistaken for victimization and disagreement for harm. It argues that real emotional maturity means learning to tolerate differences, navigate conflict, and remain connected even when we disagree.

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Acceptance

Friday Night Bread Toss 

Every Friday night, it was the same scene.  My father would say the blessing over the bread. A quiet moment. Ritual. Tradition.  Then, instead of

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Compassion

The End Game

Love is the end game of life. Or Joy, Or Peace. There are many different words we use to describe the experience I am referring

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